Why Working With an Associate Therapist Can Be a Gift

As an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMFT) grounded in narrative therapy, I often think about the stories we tell—not just in the therapy room, but in our profession. One story I hear often is that associates are “still learning,” “inexperienced,” or “not quite there yet.” But I’d like to offer a different narrative—one that reflects the richness, insight, and value associate therapists bring to the work.

Here’s what I’ve come to appreciate about being an associate—and why working with one can be a powerful experience for both clients and colleagues.

1. We Lead With Curiosity

Narrative therapy teaches us to approach people and problems with curiosity rather than certainty. As an associate, that’s how I show up in every space. I don’t assume; I ask. I listen closely for the stories beneath the surface. This openness can invite fresh perspectives and new possibilities in both therapy and collaboration.

2. We’re Passionate and Present

There’s a unique kind of energy that comes with being early in your career. I bring that energy into every session, supervision meeting, and learning opportunity. It’s not just about gaining hours—it’s about showing up with heart, integrity, and intention.

3. We Offer a Different Lens

Many of us bring diverse life experiences, cultural perspectives, and up-to-date training that can enrich the therapeutic space. Being an associate doesn’t mean we have less to offer—it means we’re actively integrating what we’ve learned into a grounded, thoughtful practice.

4. We’re Deeply Invested in Growth

Working under supervision isn’t just a requirement—it’s a gift. I get to think deeply about my work with the support of a licensed therapist who shares my values. It’s a space for reflection, challenge, and growth. Clients benefit from that collaboration, too—they’re essentially getting two sets of thoughtful eyes on their care.

In closing, Being an associate isn’t a waiting room before becoming a “real therapist.” It’s a meaningful chapter where learning, presence, and collaboration are alive and thriving. If you're considering working with an AMFT, I invite you to see it not as a compromise—but as an opportunity to experience therapy through a fresh, attentive, and relational lens.

We may still be collecting hours, but we’re already showing up with stories that matter.

Warmly,

Abbey Vince (AMFT)